Mother of 2 children, the last of which is 6 months old. I am a victim of domestic violence. I took a number of steps, but to no avail. Our town is small. I would like to leave and find private accommodation because he knows the system.
Mother of 2 children, the last of which is 6 months old. I am a victim of domestic violence. I took a number of steps, but to no avail. Our town is small. I would like to leave and find private accommodation because he knows the system.
I decided to leave him because our children are young and the birth is too recent. In 3 years, he has changed a lot. He told me he wanted children. I believed him. He often hits me in the months following childbirth as for the first. Except that there, the blows are too strong. Yesterday he hit me on the head. I thought it was going to explode. I fainted. I'm afraid. He says if I go he will find me. I want to get out of there while I babysit the little one. When I'm with him, he can't hit me. Afterwards, it will be harder. He is smart. My every move is watched. I need to find accommodation. He is well liked by people. My best friend takes him for a saint. My father too. I must go, far from it all. I will get back in touch with my family when things get better. I can't trust nobody there
How the funds will be used?
I'm getting my unemployment so I know it will be better afterwards. I just need the money to find a studio, to pay the deposit and to feed the children. After the end of January it will be good.
Challenges
I have to get out of there as soon as possible. I was already afraid to go home. He started typing me 1 month after my return. He has to go on the road for a few days. So, it's gonna be the right time.
Project Risks
I made my sister understand that he was not what we thought. I hope she won't say anything. I stopped answering them on whatsapp. The problem is that my exit times are controlled. I feel lost.
I am a young mother under 30 years old. I have always been positive in life. But, for 4 years it is hell. When I met him, I felt his possessive side that I liked. And, I didn't want kids. It was too early for me. But, he convinced me. And, since my first childbirth, I have been beaten. Sometimes it is good. And, I still hope it will change. But there, my second pregnancy was difficult. Childbirth too. And, I didn't expect to be hit again. I haven't even recovered yet. It is no longer possible.
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Mother of 2 children, the last of which is 6 months old. I am a victim of domestic violence. I took a number of steps, but to no avail. Our town is small. I would like to leave and find private accommodation because he knows the system.
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